It's been a month. I used to obsess about every detail on what I should've done and didn't do. Sometimes, I still do. But along with it is the realization that doing so wouldn't bring back what was lost. Everyday is a choice to lose the will to live or to rise above the loss.… Continue reading Focus on the Living

Going through grief can make you an emotional wreck. But there are good days and not just the not-so-good ones. Any semblance to normalcy is a welcome distraction but no matter how you want for things to be back to normal, it just wouldn't be because what is happening now IS OUR NEW NORMAL. The… Continue reading Going through grief

Hello September indeed! I had to take care of an errand earlier today which involves stepping inside a mall. I know that yuletide songs would be blaring through the store from the speakers this early which is what had happened. I never thought that "Joy To The World" would bring such a wave of sadness… Continue reading Joy and Grief